In August of 2009 God changed our lives by giving us a beautiful little girl. Lydia was born with Zellweger Syndrome. Lydia went to be with Jesus in April of 2010. This is the story of her life and death, and of our journey through grief in search of healing.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Many people have already heard, but our sweet girl went to be with Jesus this morning.
She was peaceful and quiet and in our arms.
When we know any details, we'll pass them on to you. Thank you so much for your prayers and your love for our girl.
My name is Rebecca (melissa arroyo's sister) and I have been following your blog for some time now...I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Mere words cannot remove the devastating pain that you and your family are feeling but we are praying for you at this difficult time.
Psalm 46:1-2 God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea.
As you know, I have been following your blog and updates on sweet Lydia for quite a while now. My heart breaks for your family today. Even though we have never met, please know you are in everyday prayer, I think of your family so often.
My heart is breaking for you. I have been quietly praying for your family for a while now. Please know that I am lifting you to the Father during your time of grief.
Jen, There are no words to express the deep sympathy, love, and sadness we are feeling today for your loss. She was such a beautiful treasure and our hearts break with yours at her passing. She has met our wonderful and loving God, and while the hurt remains, there is joy in knowing she is in His loving arms. We love you, and we're here, in any way we can be for you. Jamy and Ken
Jen, Micah, and family, Praying for comfort in your time of loss. There are no words to express the sorrow I feel for you. My heart aches, but rejoices knowing she is with the Lord, and in peace. Love you, and sweet Lydia. Amy
our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have been on my heart for the past two days. Lydia is free and with her Heavenly Father. Though you weep at the loss of such a precious gift know that she is at peace. You are such an amazing set of parents and you showed such faith these months as you cared for her and loved her. May God give you rest during this time.
my tears are both happy and sad. sad that you have to miss her and endure the wait until you see her sweet face again, but happy too that she's w/ our perfect, loving Savior! i'm praying to our Father for you and micah! love you, jen!
Praying for your sweet family, and though sad precious Lydia is no longer on this Earth, I have to smile to know when she closed her eyes here, she opened them and the first thing she saw was the face of Jesus and now she is healed and perfectly whole in His presence.
Jan and I celebrate her life, and now her healing. You have been tender and amazing parents. You are at the heart of many prayers of friends and family, and even "strangers" from around the world. We will continue to hold you and and your families before the throne of our Lord as you miss holding your sweet girl.
Jen, I have followed Lydia's life through your cousin Tina and I feel like I've known her for these past 8 months. She is a beautiful baby and now that she is with Jesus, she will watch over you, her daddy and all her family and friends in the garden of angels. May the comfort and the strength of the Lord be with you all. Love, Aunt Dawn
Jen, you taught our son a few years ago at CHS. I have been viewing Lydias pictures through Sarins's FB, she is a beautiful precious girl who lives on with Christ. Lydia is at peace and completely healed now. Our family is praying for comfort and strength for you and your family.
Jen, I am so sad for you and Micah. Lydia was such a beautiful spirit, and I cannot imagine how much you will miss her. But you and Micah gave her such a wonderful life on this Earth, and I am sure she is at peace. You and Micah and your whole family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Kate
Dear Jen; You will not recognize my name, but I was introduced to your precious little girl through D. Snow in St. Louis. How grateful I am that Lydia was passed from your arms into the arms of Jesus and that you were there for that moment. Praying, Carol
Jen, I'm so sorry. You guys are such great parents. I've been thinking about you and Lydia a lot lately. I know everyone says this, but REALLY if you ever need anything...
We are praying for you. We pray that God's peace will surpass all understanding and that He will draw you near to Him during this time. May He comfort you in the ways that only a Loving Father can do.
Knowing that Lydia has found peace and praying that you will soon find peace too! She is home now resting...she will forever be your guardian angel. Know how many people are out there praying for you and your family.
Thank you for being an amazing gift to me. Through the past months you have taught me many things not the least of which are how to love more deeply and pray more sincerely.
I am praying for you all to find the comfort and strength that you will need to walk the road that is ahead of you. I am resting in God's word that you will see her again. You have not lost her...you know exactly where she is. She is with Him, rejoicing and singing with the angels!
Micah and Jen, Mom, Dad and I have been following the blog right along to keep you in our prayers. Although Lydia is now gone, so is her pain, and your pain, and time to think of the love and joy that so many shared through the journey. She will be remembered for touching the hearts of those that met her, and those that were linked through your regular loving messages.
Jen and Micah, Thinking of you. I have no words. I will compose myself later and write...but for now know that I have been where you are...and I made it. I loved Lydia even though I never met her and I know she was met in heaven by my girls. Oh how I long for heaven and our Lord who created it. These are hard days friends. My prayers are with you day and night.
Jen and Michah, My heart is broken to read the words you have posted here of sweet Lydia's passing. Though I never met Lydia I have come to know her through your posts, and thank you for sharing her amazing life and spirit with us all. I know how strong you are in your faith, and pray that God will bring comfort to your hearts over these coming days. Please know, how truly and deeply sorry I am, and that I am thinking of you all and praying for you tonight. Praying for peace in your hearts and remembering Lydia with you. xx Kristin
My heart weeps for you. You have all our prayers and love.
ReplyDeleteYou are all in our prayers. We are close by if you need anything.
ReplyDeleteMy name is Rebecca (melissa arroyo's sister) and I have been following your blog for some time now...I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Mere words cannot remove the devastating pain that you and your family are feeling but we are praying for you at this difficult time.
ReplyDeletePsalm 46:1-2
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea.
Jenn & family,
ReplyDeleteAs you know, I have been following your blog and updates on sweet Lydia for quite a while now. My heart breaks for your family today. Even though we have never met, please know you are in everyday prayer, I think of your family so often.
You are all in my heart, thoughts, and prayers.
Ashley
This is such heartbreaking news, Jenn. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family...
ReplyDeleteShe's dancing with the sun on her face. She was so lucky to have you two, and you two are so lucky to have her--forever!
ReplyDeleteJenn, my sincerest thoughts are with you and your family today- lifting you up as close to Jesus as I earthly possible.
ReplyDelete-Jill Landers
Jen, what a blessing Lydia was to you and to all who know her story. Love and prayers to you and Micah for the peace that passes all understanding.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is breaking for you. I have been quietly praying for your family for a while now. Please know that I am lifting you to the Father during your time of grief.
ReplyDeleteIn Christ-
Mandy (Megan's sister in law)
Jen,
ReplyDeleteThere are no words to express the deep sympathy, love, and sadness we are feeling today for your loss. She was such a beautiful treasure and our hearts break with yours at her passing. She has met our wonderful and loving God, and while the hurt remains, there is joy in knowing she is in His loving arms. We love you, and we're here, in any way we can be for you.
Jamy and Ken
Jen, Micah, and family,
ReplyDeletePraying for comfort in your time of loss. There are no words to express the sorrow I feel for you. My heart aches, but rejoices knowing she is with the Lord, and in peace. Love you, and sweet Lydia.
Amy
our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have been on my heart for the past two days. Lydia is free and with her Heavenly Father. Though you weep at the loss of such a precious gift know that she is at peace. You are such an amazing set of parents and you showed such faith these months as you cared for her and loved her. May God give you rest during this time.
ReplyDeletemy tears are both happy and sad. sad that you have to miss her and endure the wait until you see her sweet face again, but happy too that she's w/ our perfect, loving Savior! i'm praying to our Father for you and micah! love you, jen!
ReplyDeletePraying for your sweet family, and though sad precious Lydia is no longer on this Earth, I have to smile to know when she closed her eyes here, she opened them and the first thing she saw was the face of Jesus and now she is healed and perfectly whole in His presence.
ReplyDeleteJan and I celebrate her life, and now her healing. You have been tender and amazing parents. You are at the heart of many prayers of friends and family, and even "strangers" from around the world. We will continue to hold you and and your families before the throne of our Lord as you miss holding your sweet girl.
ReplyDeleteJen, I have followed Lydia's life through your cousin Tina and I feel like I've known her for these past 8 months. She is a beautiful baby and now that she is with Jesus, she will watch over you, her daddy and all her family and friends in the garden of angels. May the comfort and the strength of the Lord be with you all. Love, Aunt Dawn
ReplyDeleteJen, you taught our son a few years ago at CHS. I have been viewing Lydias pictures through Sarins's FB, she is a beautiful precious girl who lives on with Christ. Lydia is at peace and completely healed now. Our family is praying for comfort and strength for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteJen, I am so sad for you and Micah. Lydia was such a beautiful spirit, and I cannot imagine how much you will miss her. But you and Micah gave her such a wonderful life on this Earth, and I am sure she is at peace. You and Micah and your whole family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Kate
Dear Jen;
ReplyDeleteYou will not recognize my name, but I was introduced to your precious little girl through D. Snow in St. Louis.
How grateful I am that Lydia was passed from your arms into the arms of Jesus and that you were there for that moment.
Praying,
Carol
Jen, I'm so sorry. You guys are such great parents. I've been thinking about you and Lydia a lot lately. I know everyone says this, but REALLY if you ever need anything...
ReplyDeleteWe are praying for you. We pray that God's peace will surpass all understanding and that He will draw you near to Him during this time. May He comfort you in the ways that only a Loving Father can do.
ReplyDeleteThat little sweetie is blessing heaven right now. We're so with you in mind, spirit, prayer and tears.
ReplyDeleteKnowing that Lydia has found peace and praying that you will soon find peace too! She is home now resting...she will forever be your guardian angel. Know how many people are out there praying for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteJen and Micah,
ReplyDeleteThank you for being an amazing gift to me. Through the past months you have taught me many things not the least of which are how to love more deeply and pray more sincerely.
I am praying for you all to find the comfort and strength that you will need to walk the road that is ahead of you. I am resting in God's word that you will see her again. You have not lost her...you know exactly where she is. She is with Him, rejoicing and singing with the angels!
My love to you and your amazing family!
I am so sorry for your loss, I will be praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteYour daughter is such a beautiful person, She will be missed by many.
Jen and Micah,
ReplyDeleteI've been following and reading and praying for some time now. There are no words. There is only love.
1 Corinthians 13:13 And now, these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But, the greatest of these is love.
With so much love for you and your lovely daughter.
Becca
Micah and Jen, Mom, Dad and I have been following the blog right along to keep you in our prayers. Although Lydia is now gone, so is her pain, and your pain, and time to think of the love and joy that so many shared through the journey. She will be remembered for touching the hearts of those that met her, and those that were linked through your regular loving messages.
ReplyDeleteJohn
Jen and Micah,
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. I have no words. I will compose myself later and write...but for now know that I have been where you are...and I made it. I loved Lydia even though I never met her and I know she was met in heaven by my girls. Oh how I long for heaven and our Lord who created it. These are hard days friends. My prayers are with you day and night.
Jen and Michah,
ReplyDeleteMy heart is broken to read the words you have posted here of sweet Lydia's passing. Though I never met Lydia I have come to know her through your posts, and thank you for sharing her amazing life and spirit with us all. I know how strong you are in your faith, and pray that God will bring comfort to your hearts over these coming days. Please know, how truly and deeply sorry I am, and that I am thinking of you all and praying for you tonight. Praying for peace in your hearts and remembering Lydia with you.
xx
Kristin